data and database size question
so, basically when I am connecting with some-one on mastodon or diaspora or another hubzilla hub, all the text messages of my "connections/friends/whatever" are basically added to my database, and I am not seeing at those sites with my site being a client? Is this right?
Thus the database site will be HUGE soon if there are moderate number of people having small to moderate number of connections and they are actively exchanging texts? I understand that older messages/texts can be deleted from my server (HOW??) but then users will miss those data in their stream, without any prior notice?
And what about image files? Are they also downloaded to my server (the server owned by others I am using or the server I "own" (webhosting account) ?